Tuesday, 22 December 2015

Having fun with the Neighbors.








First of all, I have lived outside my house in 4 times so I think it's not enough to talk about the neighbors... Also, I think that to talk about a person that isn't present it's something highly disrespectful for the one who cannot comment anything.
I think I have a big trouble when being sociable is required. I try to respect my privacy, so I usually skip myself to put all my data in the same basket. So I'm known as "Two baskets man" (Look at "The Simpsons" for reference)
Sometimes to be friendly with neighbors isn't bad.
 I'm the kind of guy that thinks in being friendly and respectful with the people who meet. Sometimes, you receive the same care of those people who shares with you. Sometimes is a good idea to share, sometimes not... but you don't have to think too much about that. If you do something for good, just take care of avoid things that could be misinterpreted with people tied to their own desire/fate (married or engaged people).
It's hard when you are closer to a person who is engaged or married and the husband/significant other turns jealous at you...  In thoses cases I usually start to think "Well, I don't have guilt to be as attractive, smart, sexy... so whatever!, I didn't do anything... at least something that I could keep into my memory." :P
Actuallly, I consider that I know enough to share at a certain point... Sometimes, I feel that is equally the same  trouble to be sociable or an anti-social person.
Being sociable isn't something I used to be.
If someone say you something that bothers you.... take it from the person who said it to you and think to yourself... Does it that matter?
 In my point of view, I assume that a comment should be taken from the person who says it. Just think that most of people don't think too much about what they say, and sometimes there are a lot of people who need more information to make a good opinion.
 Currently my neighbors have been provided our family a good place to live. It's sort of quiet and most of the boys/girls on my age are my friends too.
 One of my neighbors is on birthday in December 25th. That picture is one that my friends took me during the celebration last year.
It's hard for me to say that I was with some friends there, but they were shy.

Summarizing, there's no reason to feel good or bad. Be yourself and do what you want. If somebody is making you feel odd, just let him/her be as you want to feel yourself.


2 comments:

  1. Hi Fernando,
    I think your attitude is very healthy, but I can't believe that you never talk about anybody who isn't present at the time. If true, I think you are the only person in the world who doesn't! I don't think it's a problem to tell anecdotes about people. It's not like we are naming and shaming them!!
    Some nice expressions used here in this blog, but I would caution you to check some of the expressions that you write if you find yourself translating directly from Spanish. Often you just can't do it.
    I didn't understand the point about two baskets at all, or the last sentence. Maybe you can explain them to me.
    Thanks for your efforts though. Below I am writing a list of expressions that you could have used in your post. See if you can identify where. :-)
    1. defend themselves
    2. when it comes to
    3. I'm the kind of guy who tries to be
    4. spend time with
    5. It's not my fault if..
    6. at least nothing I can remember
    7. people often think without speaking
    8. picture.....took of me
    9. All in all,

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  2. Hi Fernando,
    I think your attitude is very healthy, but I can't believe that you never talk about anybody who isn't present at the time. If true, I think you are the only person in the world who doesn't! I don't think it's a problem to tell anecdotes about people. It's not like we are naming and shaming them!!
    Some nice expressions used here in this blog, but I would caution you to check some of the expressions that you write if you find yourself translating directly from Spanish. Often you just can't do it.
    I didn't understand the point about two baskets at all, or the last sentence. Maybe you can explain them to me.
    Thanks for your efforts though. Below I am writing a list of expressions that you could have used in your post. See if you can identify where. :-)
    1. defend themselves
    2. when it comes to
    3. I'm the kind of guy who tries to be
    4. spend time with
    5. It's not my fault if..
    6. at least nothing I can remember
    7. people often think without speaking
    8. picture.....took of me
    9. All in all,

    ReplyDelete